09-12-2015, 08:50 AM
A cat I am looking after has suddenly become afraid of the only room she has available right now. That is where her food, water, and beds are. It is a lovely carpeted room, warm and cozy, and I keep light classical music playing at a very low volume. She has always liked that, used to purr in there, and rub her face against things, and lie on the floor for a belly-rub. We also played with toys she likes in there.
There is nothing obvious to me in that room which could cause her to be afraid, and nothing, to my knowledge, has happened in there to scare her. The atmosphere of the room is pleasant and gentle (i.e. no bad ghosty-things! LOL!)
She has liked the room for over a year. Now suddenly, she won't go in there.
I have deliberately left her food in there so she might become desensitised, and have to brave it out to get to her food. She has obviously been doing that, as she has become no thinner, and the food is eaten when I go back.
I have however, put her water bowl outside, as she was getting dehydrated.
With Autumn and Winter coming, she can't go on like this, as that room is her only shelter. Her fear seems quite strong. I tried gently 'flooding' her by carrying her in, then stroking her, scratching her ears, purring (yes I can purr!), 'kneading' on her bed, talking in a sweet voice, laughing a little, offering her favourite cat treats, and trying to engage her in play.
She was not interested in any of it, and only wanted to dash outside, so I let her go.
Every time she dashes away I ignore her, and have tried the method of just going away silently when she displays fear, and giving her encouragement every time she braves it to come in. But she is tense, bolts her food, and can't wait to dash outside again, so it's hard to catch a relaxed moment in there.
Yet turning my back on her for her fear doesn't seem to work. All that happens is she runs away, stays outside and I eventually have to go home, as I can't stay there indefinitely.
She will not come near the room, even for a cuddle. And I don't want to start to pander to her being outside by taking her food out there, or she will never come in at all.
It started raining tonight, and when I visited, she was sleeping under the laurel hedge..... She was slightly wet.
If there is anyone who can give me any clues or practical suggestions to help this cat, or who has successfully overcome apparently irrational fears in their cat, I would appreciate it very much.
There is nothing obvious to me in that room which could cause her to be afraid, and nothing, to my knowledge, has happened in there to scare her. The atmosphere of the room is pleasant and gentle (i.e. no bad ghosty-things! LOL!)
She has liked the room for over a year. Now suddenly, she won't go in there.
I have deliberately left her food in there so she might become desensitised, and have to brave it out to get to her food. She has obviously been doing that, as she has become no thinner, and the food is eaten when I go back.
I have however, put her water bowl outside, as she was getting dehydrated.
With Autumn and Winter coming, she can't go on like this, as that room is her only shelter. Her fear seems quite strong. I tried gently 'flooding' her by carrying her in, then stroking her, scratching her ears, purring (yes I can purr!), 'kneading' on her bed, talking in a sweet voice, laughing a little, offering her favourite cat treats, and trying to engage her in play.
She was not interested in any of it, and only wanted to dash outside, so I let her go.
Every time she dashes away I ignore her, and have tried the method of just going away silently when she displays fear, and giving her encouragement every time she braves it to come in. But she is tense, bolts her food, and can't wait to dash outside again, so it's hard to catch a relaxed moment in there.
Yet turning my back on her for her fear doesn't seem to work. All that happens is she runs away, stays outside and I eventually have to go home, as I can't stay there indefinitely.
She will not come near the room, even for a cuddle. And I don't want to start to pander to her being outside by taking her food out there, or she will never come in at all.
It started raining tonight, and when I visited, she was sleeping under the laurel hedge..... She was slightly wet.
If there is anyone who can give me any clues or practical suggestions to help this cat, or who has successfully overcome apparently irrational fears in their cat, I would appreciate it very much.