That's nice. Her body will be buried with her mother's, and you can have a proper funeral for her. I am deeply sorry about how you all must feel, and how Paul must be feeling.
It is really tough when you have been used to her character around all the time....slipping the odd treat to her....etc.
They get to a point where they aren't interested in those 'worldly things' any more. But in the first two or three months -when I 'd already had connection with Misty on the Other Side, and sensed her energy and character around a lot near me....I used to offer her a small treat (usually a morsel of something off my plate after I had finished dinner) I put it down for her in her usual spot. Many times I felt a quick 'rush' of her happiness and energy, which kind of showed me she was aware of what I was doing. Whether she was able to appreciate the actual treat or not, I can't really say. But she certainly appreciated the loving gesture, and the reinforcement of the fact I was aware she was still in existence!
Of course, the physical food was stil there in the morning. Then I would put it out for the birds.
Things are much different now and I stopped doing that way back. I now eat that small morsel.
Just like her, I love my food.
I used to know some Ukranian people. I ate at their house many a time. Every Christmas (celebrated in early January) they would lay a place at table for those who had departed, and a meal would be laid out for them, and not touched by anyone else during the meal.
It is really tough when you have been used to her character around all the time....slipping the odd treat to her....etc.
They get to a point where they aren't interested in those 'worldly things' any more. But in the first two or three months -when I 'd already had connection with Misty on the Other Side, and sensed her energy and character around a lot near me....I used to offer her a small treat (usually a morsel of something off my plate after I had finished dinner) I put it down for her in her usual spot. Many times I felt a quick 'rush' of her happiness and energy, which kind of showed me she was aware of what I was doing. Whether she was able to appreciate the actual treat or not, I can't really say. But she certainly appreciated the loving gesture, and the reinforcement of the fact I was aware she was still in existence!
Of course, the physical food was stil there in the morning. Then I would put it out for the birds.
Things are much different now and I stopped doing that way back. I now eat that small morsel.
Just like her, I love my food.I used to know some Ukranian people. I ate at their house many a time. Every Christmas (celebrated in early January) they would lay a place at table for those who had departed, and a meal would be laid out for them, and not touched by anyone else during the meal.
